Hamzah Part 76
“Your life comprises a few breaths that can be counted; when one of them is sent out, a part of your life has diminished.”
Once lost, it’s never found.
You never quite realise the value with it until you’re at war with it. Until it feels like you’ve lost your mind, and you’re running out of it.
Deadlines, cut-off times and final dates. It was all a matter of time, before the chances would be up. And it’s no wonder that Allah Ta’ala takes an oath by it, to declare its importance.
In Surah Asr, it’s started that the only way to escape loss is to take every moment of his life as valuable, and use it for the four acts mentioned in the Surah.
Imam Shafi’I (RA) says that if people thought about Surah Al-’Asr carefully, it would be enough for their guidance. It’s a concise but comprehensive Surah, which outlines a complete way of human life based on the Islamic perspective.
Not only that, it drives the fact that each moment goes by, every second, minute, hour or day of the passage of time is nothing but a sword that is slashing away at your life of this world, reminding me that my time was running out.
Reminding you that every thing you do in that time is going to determine what’s going to occur after time is up.
Fresh starts, thanks to the calendar- they happen every year. A reminder that theres a new beginning. A new chance to start.
Sometimes it’s just a simple nudge to put your past behind you and start over.
At that time of my life, when the year had begun, my heart was at war with itself. It felt too deeply. Hurt too much. And I couldn’t understand why I was going through this.
While my brother secretly celebrated the news of Saaliha’s pregnancy, which made me so happy for him, with the beginning of the new year for Mos and I, was a new feeling that felt like a cloud waiting to open its doors and let loose on us.
I sat gravely on the kitchen nook, glancing at the block whilst waiting for my wife to enter the kitchen again, my Qur’ān recital the only thing that could calm the storm that was brewing within me.
It was just what I needed to heal my own heart, and to right everything that had gone wrong.
It was just what I needed to remind of the war I was fighting for the greater good… to keep everything afloat.
“How was it?”
I closed my Qur’ān softly just after concluding the recital, glancing up at my wife as she walked from the room, wearing a light coloured modest dress as she repositioned Zaid’s feeding chair.
She had rushed to the room when she had gotten home from her day, and it was only after a few minutes when hearing the droning of the breast pump, did I realise that it was the first time she had been away from Zaid for so long.
I couldn’t help but marvel at what an amazing mother she had become. It was the first time that she had left him since her resignation and though I really felt that I should have gone with her, Mohsina’s reason for keeping me out of it of made some sense.
Though I tried to fight her on it, I knew if I persisted it would just make her fight me more, and I didn’t need more of that. Already, her fingers were bare as she busied herself with Zaid, and I couldn’t help but feel gutted about it.
”You’re still here,” she said to me unhappily with Zaid perched contentedly on her hip.
It wasn’t a question. It was a warning and a reprimand for me, but I ignored it.
And I wanted to kick myself because I hated that I agreed to her request of me leaving today. I hated the entire idea but with every passing day, Mohsina was pushing me further away, trying to keep me as far away from her as possible.
”I was waiting for you.”
I wasn’t afraid to say it. Maybe I was making this harder than it should have been. But maybe I was a little upset because of everything that had happened.
It wasn’t that I blamed Mohsina for the situation. I was just upset at how she was dealing with it.
Taking off work with the excuse of seeing to my wife’s law suit would raise bigger questions and we had bigger fish to fry right then. Instead we got Zaid a nanny and left them with Liyaket’s mother for a few hours, and since her day had taken longer than anticipated, I had fetched him on my way back from work.
Now it was time for me to leave, but I was only hoping that Mohsina would somehow have some good news or a change of heart, and things would go back to normal.
Somehow we could just pretend that the past two weeks never happened and things could go back to how we always knew it.
Every minute, every moment spent without my family as a single unit felt like some sort of torture.
I watched Mohsina shoot me a frown before tugging at her scarf before she walked across the room, barely looking at me.
I watched her as I wondered what had happened. Did she manage to get them to settle? Did she manage to get her name off the nasty payments? Did any other evidence come up about the documents she signed?
I wanted to know everything but she was determined to tell me nothing. The unsaid war was mounting between us, and while I was hoping to hold onto our marriage as long as I could, Mohsina was already giving up, saying she didn’t want to make it harder for us by being around each other much longer.
I got her point, but damn… why was it still so hard?
“I missed you so much, baby boy,” Mohsina cooed softly, ignoring me while she settled Zaid into his chair with affection as he grabbed fistfuls of her tied up hair, and blabbered away.
He was so cute when he was like this, and I wanted to so badly pretend that everything was normal.
He lived for her. Sometimes I felt like Zaid was betraying me by being so attached to her, but I knew that this was how babies were. I sought refuge in the fact that once he got older, we would be best buds like his father and I.
My stagnant expression gave nothing away as I watched them both. There was a silent battle going on between the two of us, and one of us was going to back down.
I was refusing to let it be me.
Time was slipping away and I was aware that I had none left, but I was still holding on. Buying as much as I could while I scrounged around for some hope.
“Did you manage to make a settlement?”
It was my second question directed at her as I stood up, and I could see her flinching as I asked it. After all, it would solve everything. If the case would go away, none of this would have to change. We wouldn’t have to change.
“Can we not talk about this?” She mumbled, not looking at me. “I want to finish feeding Zaid. I haven’t see him the whole day. Can you just…”
She stopped awkwardly in mid sentence but I knew what she wanted to say, and my heart contracted painfully.
She wanted me to leave.
What about me? I wanted to ask. You haven’t seen me the whole day either.
And I knew that she was doing this to make it easier, but it felt a thousand times harder. She wanted me to cut off all ties with her, so it wouldn’t affect me. What she didn’t know was that what she was doing was hurting me more than anything else.
And it was just as well that I didn’t go with Mohsina that day because besides wanting to punch Faadil in the face, I had a feeling that the entire thing wouldn’t have gone very well if I did.
And I wasn’t the type to hold a grudge but the guy had been a bad boss. A bad employee. A bad whatever-he-was-to-Mohsina.
I wasn’t an insecure guy, but the odds were against him. There was no chance I could ever warm up to him now.
Still, all that didn’t matter that much. What mattered was that he proved to be a Muslim who led his life as if he wasn’t even Muslim. He did horrible things. He stole money and got up to shady side deals in clubs, took random women as toys, and all this was playing on my mind the entire day while I thought of Mohsina going back and facing this guy once again.
I had plunged myself into audits that day, while Mohsina left to meet lawyers, keeping my mind off what the worst case scenario here could be, making much Duaa and trying to surrender to the concept of Taqdeer.
Trying to have full faith that Allah will still see this all through, and come out with the best solution for us all.
And in doing so, I had hope. Hope that she would tell me it’s all sorted, and I didn’t have to worry. Hope that this would all blow over, without any consequences. Hope that it would all just disappear.
And here she was, despite my own hopes, offering me no assurance that this was going to be okay.
That’s all I wanted for now, and she was giving me nothing to work with with.
“Mos,” I said, grabbing my keys and moving now to stand right in front her, making her look at me while she tried to feed Zaid some mashed up looking carrots.
I wanted to reach out to her. To yank her pony. To pull her close. To make her laugh. To take her hand and assure her that it would be okay.
But I didn’t dare. This was far too gone.
“Did you sign the papers yet?”
Her tone was rigid as she said it and I sighed, turning away, already feeling deflated.
She didn’t say the word but I knew that it meant that we will still there.
The annulment of marriage contract.
It sounded so formal and morbid. She was now at this ugly point when she had decided to do the most disliked thing in the sight of Allah.
It was my standard reply and I treated it like a challenge. A challenge that entailed me doing everything I could to never sign those papers.
“It’s the only way,” she said softly, trying to appeal to me with the softness that sometimes cut through her steely personality.
“It’s not,” I insisted, my stance unyielding as I held her gaze.
“It is because their lawyers won’t budge,” she said, breaking eye contact and looking at Zaid as she spoke. “Faadil has no way of taking my name off the records completely. My name is already there and I’m guilty until proven innocent and I won’t let you take the fall for it too, Hamzah.”
She turned to me then and her eyes flared as she said it. I scowled at her.
“So you can take the fall for him but I can’t take the fall for you?”
She said it as if she was talking to a kid.
I narrowed my eyes at her. That’s exactly how it was.
“Mohsina,” I said to her, in the exact same tone she had used with me.
Now was her turn to narrow her eyes.
We never fought.
We bickered and bantered with ease, on most occasions, but a full blown out fight wasn’t our thing. It felt precariously close to that situation.
“You know it’s not like that,” she said, her voice pleading and her eyes glistening. “I signed documents to say I took the money from him. He can’t just undo it.”
“You mean he doesn’t want to,” I said stiffly, knowing exactly how Bossman worked, and not prepared to fight her on this anymore.
She was so gullible, and the way she bought his stupid excuses, was exactly like Mohsina. While she appeared tough and impenetrable on the surface, I knew that my wife would never let anyone take a fall if she could help it. Even if they deserved it.
Mohsina was selfless to the point of exhaustion and whilst I loved what she had done for her family, I hated that it was what was making her want to resort to something that would break us both. It just didn’t make sense to me to let this ruin us.
All the fight had been fought already. I had no more left in me at this point.
Mohsina was silent as I watched her back, not even know whether I should wait for her response. I just knew that I couldn’t leave at that point. She said nothing and the more the silence persisted, the more restless I felt, and the more I couldn’t step out the door.
Zaid was painfully oblivious to the tension between us, all I could think about was how much this would affect him. How much I would miss him tonight, while I wasn’t with him. How our little family would be torn apart.
He had settled so well during the past month, and to have to upset his routine again was going to be the worst mistake. I wasn’t even sure how Mohsina was going to do it, but she was insistent that we could work out a proper agreement between us, so we could both alternate in keeping him, and he would barely feel it.
I begged to differ.
My entire family was going to be broken and Mohsina was taking it standing up.
“Why are you fighting this?” She finally asked, pulling Zaid out of the feeding chair and meeting me eye. “I gave you the time you asked for and you said you would leave after. I’m not worth the hassle this would bring.”
Her last words struck my heart. She was worth it. She was worth every moment. But she hadn’t even given me enough time to show her that.
Three days. She had given me three days to pull something out to save us before she gave up completely. Was it worth that little to her? Was all this just an experiment?
Anger rose within me but I bit it back, knowing it wouldn’t do any good. If she wasn’t going to fight for us, someone had to, but we couldn’t be going crazy whilst doing it.
“I want more time,” I said flatly, knowing that I was going against what I had said but planning on pushing Zubair even more to come up with something that can turn the situation around. I was going to call him as soon as I left for Masjid. I was going to have to get something to salvage this. “Please.”
She looked slightly taken aback by my request. By the fact that I was literally begging her.
And why wouldn’t she? None of us ever thought that we would come to this point.
“Give me a reason,” she answered softly, looking up at me from the corner of her eye and taking me by surprise. “One good reason.”
I had gotten her to this point, and it was just enough for me to give this my all. My wife’s eyes were hopeful as she waited, and I couldn’t help but notice how painfully gorgeous she looked as her eyes lit up with something that resembled hope.
Hope. It was the only thing keeping me going. If it even existed here.
“Because you are worth it,” I said stubbornly, the words slipping out it my mouth before I could even think. “Because I don’t care about the money. About status. About my accreditation. Because despite everything I may lose, I’m still hoping for a happy ending here. Because I don’t care about everything that I may lose and even if I do, if I lose you, I will have nothing. Because you are everything, Mohsina. You and Zaid are everything to me. That’s why.”
She was stunned into silence as I spoke, her eyes wide as my voice rose a tad bit louder than intended.
Maybe I was getting a little carried away, but emotions were powerful stuff. Maybe I wasn’t supposed to feel that way, but I knew that Allah had brought us together for a reason and that before this curve ball, everything that this had brought, from leaving our old lifestyles to Zaid and our amazing family, was an immense blessing.
And I didn’t need another reason. That’s was the only reason why I was stalling and buying more time, hanging into threads of hope that could unite us once again, hoping that some miracle would happen that would that would bring her back to me, even if it was just for a teeny weeny snippet in time.
It was an intense moment as we stared at each other, almost in some sort of weird challenge, whilst Zaid mumbled something incoherent, oblivious to our emotions as our eyes spoke words none of us dared to say.
I love you, mine’s said with no reservation.
What if that’s not enough? Her’s question back.
The ringing of my phone in my pocket startled us but I ignored it, because I didn’t want Mohsina to push me out while I wasn’t ready to leave. At this point, it felt like everything was on the line and there was no way I was leaving today. I needed that time to prove that this wasn’t just a silly mistake that we had made. I needed to show that real love may just be what we actually had here.
And yes, I had let my guard down. There was a reason why I told Liyaket that I didn’t believe in love. Why I always wanted to be happy alone.
I thought that if I gave something my all, and it fell apart, I would never make it off the ground after. I didn’t want to shape my life around something, and then lose it. How do you survive the pain that feels like losing an organ? What if I actually learnt that I needed love, and I couldn’t have it?
But that’s why Allah gives us a solution, in everything we do. That’s why when we hand our hearts over, we still keep our focus solely on Him. Despite loving someone so deeply, you still love Allah above them, because He is your only anchor. Allah teaches us, over and over again, that beyond everything else, the only thing that still remains is His Loyalty.
Whoever loves for the sake of Allah and hates for the sake of Allah and gives for the sake of Allah and denies for the sake of Allah has completed his faith (Abu Dawud, Tirmidhi).
Everything was only for Him, through Him and because of Him. There is no loyalty but with Him.
And it was because of that that here I was, hanging on by a thread in choppy waters, knowing that at any second, even that thread could snap.
And it was at the most inappropriate moments that technology intervened, and Mohsina’s phone ringing interrupted my thoughts while I couldn’t help but glare at it like it was the bane of my life.
She too was snapped out of her own thoughts, and she looked at me apologetically and sighed, glancing at the phone as on the countertop.
”It’s Nani,” she said apprehensively, glancing at me and wiping her hands again as if to ask my permission to take it.
I immediately softened, glad it wasn’t anything to do with work. That might have been the final straw for me.
My words still hung in the air as she picked up the phone, and I shifted my own attention to Zaid as I watched him attempt to toss some shell-shaped pasta off the feeding table. Throwing food discreetly off the feeding chair was one of his favourite hobbies.
Even though he was so mischievous, he was so cute at moments like those that it made me wonder what he was going to be like as he got older. I could only imagine how much naughtier he would get as the years went by, and the thought actually made me smile.
I grabbed what I could from his tightly fisted hands while Mohsina spoke, wiping his face and taking him to wash up while I listened to my wife try and speak normally.
Her cheeks were flushed, like they usually were when she was a little flustered, and it was obvious that she was still a bit overwhelmed from our conversation, and it made me hopeful that I had actually penetrated something. She had been so rigid and unyielding these past few days. Nothing I could say would make her budge.
All I needed was time, to set this right. It would give me an opportunity to get something solid on Faadil. As much as I knew about his dodgy activities, I knew that I would only get what I needed if I gave Zubair more time and resources to find evidence to turn this whole thing around.
“No, I didn’t hear, Nani,” I could hear Mohsina saying, her voice steadying as she spoke again. “What happened?”
There was silence from my wife but I could hear Nani’s voice from where I was on the other side of the room. I couldn’t help but smirk as I did.
“Oh no,” Mohsina said softly. “I don’t think she thought about that.”
There was more animated talking again from the other end of the line, while I checked my own phone to see who had called, swallowing slightly nervously as I saw the name.
Zubair’s number was listed and I made a mental note to call him as soon as I got a moment. Perhaps it was something important. In fact, I was really hoping that it was.
Mohsina’s voice cut through my thoughts as she spoke again.
“Yes, it’s very soon but Nani-“
She was cut off by another audible burst of emotion and I actually stifled a smile as I turned to watch her while Zaid pulled at my beard with his clammy hands.
”Nani, I’m not sure if we can-“ she tried again, but I knew from past experience that there was probably no use even trying to talk her way out of whatever Nani wanted.
“Okay, I’ll ask Hamzah,” she said finally, and I could see her roll her eyes in frustration.
She was tired. And I was so glad for the diversion.
Something had shifted within her. With Nani, sometimes Mohsina seemed like an entirely different person.
Whatever Nani had said obviously wasn’t in her plan but it had somehow got me hopeful.
She said a few more words before finally greeting Nani, cutting the call and then looking at me worriedly.
I looked back at her, frowning slightly as I watched her fiddle with Zaid’s messed bib, and then wipe the table a third time, despite it being clean enough.
And it was weird that I was still sticking around, watching her like a creep when I was supposed to be gone, but her actions were making me wonder what was going on.
She was doing the same thing as I was. Stalling. Buying time, to make this less painful. Procrastinating reality, despite knowing where we were heading. Why though, the sudden change in approach… I had no idea.
It took a few minutes before she finally looked up at me, and gave me the reason for her temporary silence.
”I think you may have to just stick around a while longer,” she said stiffly, and I could feel my heart rate already increase as she said it.
Now that was good news.
I raised an eyebrow at her, not trusting myself to speak as yet. I was still partly in shock.
“I think you may know something about it,” she said, now looking at me questioningly. “Zubair wanting to meet Jameela?”
Ah. Puzzle pieces clicked into place as I recalled the conversation I had had with him after Mohsina told me about how upset Jameela was. It was a simple conversation, guy to guy, where I basically told him that there was no need for him to punish himself his entire life, because of his past. that Allah doesn’t hold our deeds against us, so why should he?
I had convinced him about the beauty of Nikah. Of how a woman may bring out a better part of him (he had actually laughed, when I wasn’t sure if the guy could even smile properly). I had convinced him that he didn’t need to be alone for the rest of his life, just because he felt like he deserved some sort of punishment.
This was before everything between Mohsina and I had spiralled downward.
I didn’t know that he had actually taken the conversation to heart. It meant that Zubair had actually changed his mind about what he wanted in life, and I may have been the reason for it.
How ironic. On the brink of my marriage collapsing, he was making one for himself.
”Nani wants to talk to us altogether,” she said stiffly, wiping her wet hands on a dish cloth. “And we will have to be there together on Sunday too so I guess…”
I breathed out as she trailed off, feeling an immense surge of relief and gratitude as she said it.
Allah Ta’ala had somehow managed swayed the plan for me, and I knew that this was no coincidence.
It wasn’t what I expected but it was more than I deserved.
It was just what I needed to buy more time, and turn this entire thing around.
Whether it would actually work, was another question entirely…
Mission Sunnah Revival
Sunnah of Thinking Good about others
We’re so quick to assume bad things about people, even when we have no idea what’s the real story. Thinking the best about others is part of the Sunnah of Nabi (Sallalahu Alaihi wa Sallam) and is a great way to give us a positive outlook and always be good to others.
He replied: “By Allah! To us The Prophet (Sallalahu Alaihi wa Sallam) was dearer to us than our riches our children and our mothers, and was more cherishable than a drink of water at the time of severest thirst.”
SubhaanAllah… what perfect imaan they had… May Allah enable us to practise..💕
Yoh intense! Hope everything works out for Hamza and Mohsina.
Zubair and Jameela yayy 💖 About time !
Mashallah beautiful writing as always 💕
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Yup, I know… I wasn’t quite sure how this would have to go down between Mos and Hamzah’s but let’s give them some hope… sorry for the delay people, I’m going to try for a bonus post InshaAllah ..❤️
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A bonus ❤️❤️❤️
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Sorry, one day early will have to do.. InshaAllah will be out tonight ❤️
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I’m crying for Hamza, but he’s a good guy with his priorities set straight. I trust his tawakkul will see them through these choppy waters
As for nani😁😁😁
Can’t wait to see how it plays out between zubair and jamz
Shukran for the amazing post, was waiting for it 😅
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Yes, he definitely is, and he’s just being tested throughout these months of marriage….
Lol, Nani actually saved the day again… 🤍
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What a Tear Jerker.. Shewh, this was an intense.. Amazing writing as always. Masha Allah.. Just proof to show, that there is an Allah, that He does come through when you rely on Him & many times in unexpected ways.. Holding thumbs here for Mos & Hamzah.. She just needs to understand that the love between her & Hamzah is the Halaal type of Love that’s so worth having & what i term as Marriage Goals.. She just needs to realise she can’t lose it so easily.. Eagerly awaiting the next post..
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It was… and alhumdulillah for miracles, indeed, Allah provides from where we can’t imagine .❤️❤️
Well, soon we will see…
Shukran dear sister
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My heart is just tearing.. like literally..
I mean these 2 are so beautiful together and yet so many tests just to set them apart..
Its sad actually how cruel the world is..
I can imagine the horror when Nani must have known about bronze erm wanting to talk to jamz 😂😂
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Nani is definitely a character and is not going to leave this without her two cents. But let’s see if they can all rise above this…
I’m crying for Hamzah. He’s such a good guy. Please keep him and Mos okay together
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Oh my heart💔
You just have a way with words, dear authress, so talented ما شاء الله
We all rooting for Mos and Hamza, and for Jameela and erm 😀
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Ah shukran sister, I think we would both love if it both couples would win… ❤️
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